Imitation Game

Nkem is an immigrant who moved from Nigeria to America with her husband Obiora. Despite the luxurious life Nkem was promised and had dreamed of, she lived a lonely life in America. Her husband took business trips to Nigeria for months on end, leaving Nkem alone. In America, Nkem was physically separated from everything that she had considered home, except for her Nigerian maid. Because Nkem felt so out of touch with her Nigerian culture, she grew closer to her maid. Despite Amaechi working under her, she was the closest thing Nkem had to a friend because of their similar cultural background. 
Nkem struggled with the cultural differences she faced in America. This short story was focused on the “imitations” she found in her new life in America. For example, the unauthentic American produce. “Here there are hardly any yams at the African store—real African yams, not the fibrous potatoes the American supermarkets sell as yams. Imitation yams, Nkem thinks, and smiles” (33). She felt that America was an imitation of her life back in her home country. She became very dissatisfied with her marriage because her husband had a girlfriend in Nigeria. Her marriage became lifeless and superficial. She was so devastated by the news that her husband had an entirely different life in Nigeria that she no longer cared about maintaining the image of a perfect wife. “She would wear whatever heady perfume he’d brought her to bed and one of the lacy nightdresses she wore only two months a year” (38). Nkem used to groom herself to her husbands liking when they would be reunited after his long business trips, but she stopped trying and did not try to maintain her image for him. She felt as though her marriage became an imitation; one that had lost meaning. 

Many of the short stories in The Thing Around Your Neck show the internal struggles that the protagonists face from the cultural divide between Nigeria and America. Nkem especially struggles with this divide as one of the only familiar parts of her home in Nigeria was her husband, but slowly, Nkem lost him to his work in Nigeria, which caused a divide in their marriage. 

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